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Brenda Bender

March 29, 1959 November 23, 2018
Brenda Bender
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Brenda Kay Bender, 59, of Creve Coeur passed away Friday, November 23, 2018 at her residence. She was born March 29, 1959 to Thomas F. and Joyce D. Ramsay.

She was preceded in death by her parents, Tom and Joyce Ramsay and her beloved grandson, John Anthony “Buzz” Williams III.

She is survived by her two daughters, Megan Lehman and Alyssa Lehman. Her grandchildren, Madison Martin, McKinzie Williams, Alexis Lehman, Brayden Lehman and Lily Lehman. Her caregiver and best friend, Melody Chase and the love of her life, Bill Smith. She is also survived by multiple siblings.

Per Ms. Bender’s wishes cremation has been accorded and no services will be held.

Any donations may be made to Juvenile Diabetes Research Foundation or TAPS in Pekin in her name.

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